Sunday, November 22, 2009

Breastfeeding Does NOT Cause Cavities!

This week, we took our 2 year old to have her teeth examined by a dentist. The dentist pointed out, unfortunately, that Claire has several cavities (front & back). So, of course, we'll schedule Claire to have her teeth fixed as soon as possible. The dentist also recommended we wean her from the breast completely "because night-nursing and nursing after 1 year is the cause of her cavities." I might add that this was a terrible suggestion based on incorrect, inaccurate information printed throughout the brochures given to us *after* our visit.

Night-nursing and nursing after the age of 1 year "does not increase the risk of a child getting cavities enough to cause parents to intentionally wean their babies at night" (http://www.askdrsears.com/), & I (and probably several other nursing mothers) was upset to hear the dentist say this. The dentist also disagreed with me when I mentioned that genes also played a big role in this situation, as well (our oldest child has no cavities at 4.5 years & she nursed for 3.5 years).

The practice also has a brochure (attached) that states:

"Do not permit your child to nurse passively on the breast or bottle while sleeping... Your child should be weaned, and solid foods introduced in his diet, soon after the first birthday."
The huge difference between bottle nipples and breastfeeding is that when a child stops breastfeeding, milk stops coming out. This is not the case with a bottle where gravity plays a big part of its continuous flow.

I'm sure you're familiar with the resources below... I intend to night-wean Claire (again) but not fully wean her. Oh, what misinformation is out there!



Is Breastfeeding Linked to Tooth Decay? (from Kellymom)
" In a baby who does have a genetic problem, weaning will not slow down the rate of decay and may speed it up due to lack of lactoferrin. "
(This link contains several additional links of studies...)

Preventive Oral Health Intervention for Pediatricians (from AAP)
"Parents and caregivers should be counseled on the importance of reducing exposure to sugars in foods and drinks. To decrease the risk of dental caries and ensure the best possible health and developmental outcomes, it is recommended that parents do the following:
  1. Breastfeed infants during the first year of life and beyond as is mutually desired.29
  2. After nursing, remove the breast from a sleeping infant's mouth and cleanse the gums and teeth after feedings and before bedtime..."


Breastfeeding and Oral Health Issues (from LLLI)
"Alternative health care options for dental issues are rarely discussed. Dr. Enzor discussed the use of essential oils, homeopathy, probiotics, and certain foods that she has seen good results with in her practice. Some essential oils with antibacterial properties, such as tea tree, clove, red thyme, cinnamon, and eucalyptus, may be especially useful as nighttime nursing aids. Parents should mix a few drops of the oil with a few ounces of water, and wipe the solution on the child's teeth and gums."


"Does Nighttime Breastfeeding Cause Cavities?" (from Dr. Sears)
"... in general, night-nursing does NOT increase the risk of a child getting cavities enough to cause parents to intentionally wean their babies at night. You may have other reasons to do so, but do not wean at night in order to decrease cavities."

Just to name a few sources. There are plenty more not listed. Knowledge is powerful!

Saturday, November 21, 2009

Storm in a D cup

http://www.womens-health.org.nz/index.php?page=storm-in-a-d-cup
(Be sure to check out the photo, too!)

Women's Health Action

World Breastfeeding Week posters have developed a reputation for being controversial and edgy. As we work on our poster for this year, breastfeeding advocate Louise James looks at some of the issues raised by last years poster.

A simple beginning

A quiet morning in the park with a mother, her breastfeeding toddler, a banana and a top class photographer. Mother and daughter look fantastic and all is going well when the photographer asks the mother to take her breast out from the neck of her red top rather than lift it up from the waist. The resulting photograph is elegant, less clumsy and certainly less ungainly. All are pleased with the result. However, the repercussions of that decision were to reverberate again and again as the poster developed and ventured into the public domain.

The theme for World Breastfeeding Week internationally is set by the World Alliance for Breastfeeding Action (WABA). In 2005 the theme was Breastfeeding and Family Foods: Loving and Healthy. The focus was on the continuation of breastfeeding after solids have been introduced. Women's Health Action workshopped this theme with a small working group which grew out of an initial community consultation. The decision was to develop a poster which depicted a mother breastfeeding her toddler. It was agreed, though not unanimously, to have the toddler hold a healthy nutritious food to demonstrate that breastfeeding could happily co-exist with first foods. Across all cultures, the most common first food for young New Zealanders was a banana. It suited the theme beautifully, being easily recognisable, portable, non commercial and healthy.

The resulting photograph was great and mother, photographer and Women's Health Action were happy with the result. Off it went to the working group. These were all people who supported breastfeeding and the WHO Global Strategy supporting breastfeeding exclusively for the first six months and on up to two years and beyond. For some of these people the translation of the words into a real life image proved challenging.

There is one right way
Everybody loves a breastfeeding image when the baby is small and the mother is in a Madonna pose gazing adoringly at her progeny. An older child however is more challenging and the new poster was an affront to the set of unspoken rules and assumptions that many people carry unconsciously in their heads. The revelations started with the working group, but were confirmed by the wider community once the poster was released. The process uncovered a number of unwritten rules and assumptions that form real barriers to mothers breastfeeding older children and they are fascinating. We discuss some of them here.The unwritten rules for breastfeeding older children in public:

If the child being breastfed is not a baby then the child should be 'a little toddler', 'a younger child', 'a 9-10 month child', "I have a problem with a child breastfeeding when they can ask for it".

The act of breastfeeding needs to be: 'discrete', 'private', 'less exposed', 'top pulled up' and 'tasteful'.

The breastfeeding mother and child should be 'loving', 'arm wrapped around the child', 'a more likely feeding posture', 'baby on lap', 'motherly', 'held in mother's arms' the child cuddling up on mum's knees' and 'don't sit with legs apart'.

Everybody should breastfeed in the same way so the image has to conform to personal experiences of breastfeeding: "some of us have breastfed our own children through to toddlerhood but at no time found it necessary to pull our shirts down", "We have never in all our years, seen anyone breastfeeding their toddler in this position." "We are all mothers who have breastfeed our own babies and have nothing against breastfeeding in public if it is done in a sensitive and tasteful way".

Can't have the child holding a banana: 'the banana can be seen as a phallic symbol', 'a banana milk shake?'

Thanks for the mammaries
The reaction to the poster was indeed mixed: the 'Outstandingly Healthy' breastfeeding poster proved overwhelmingly popular with many: WABA from Penang wrote, "Thank you very much for sending us the posters. They are beautiful and the message comes out loud and clear". James Akre formerly of the World Health Organisation wrote, "Splendid new breastfeeding promotion poster. It superbly places the expression 'complementary feeding' into appropriate perspective." Positive comments came from far and wide recognising the great shot that it was, "I think this poster is just wonderful." "Beautiful photo", "looks good": and "She looks gorgeous".

However, given the high level of negative comment, the focus testing was important and would determine whether the poster saw the light of day. We took the image to numerous different places outside of the health profession and asked them what they thought the messages were. While some in the working group, and particularly health professionals, felt it "Could discourage rather than promote breastfeeding", "is not appropriate" and "would put many people off", the take home messages from the focus group were exactly what we were hoping for and more:
Breastfeeding is nothing to be ashamed of.

Fresh air, fresh food and fresh breast milk.
It is OK to feed in public.
The longer you breastfed the better.
Breastfeeding makes mother and child happy and healthy.
Breastfeeding is not difficult or problematic.
Should feed whenever the child needs to.
It's a normal and natural thing to do.
Breast milk is the best.
Doesn't matter where you breastfeed.
Breastfeeding doesn't have to stop with babies.
Women's breasts are put on their bodies to feed babies.
Breastfeeding is clearly part of a healthy diet.
Breastfeeding is just part of life.
We had a second picture up our sleeve for focus testing. In this one the child was on the mother's knee in the more traditionally seen Madonna pose. We ran this image through our focus groups as well: The 'safe' alternative "doesn't grab you", is a "friendlier image", is probably "acceptable to society" and "it looks more of an effort". Surprisingly, and happily, when choosing between the two, focus group participants liked the edgier, challenging version.

What lies beneath?What was going on for many people? Even those who agreed it was a lovely photo and supported breastfeeding, said they would not display it. A childbirth educator said, "Cool, but I wouldn't put it up in my classes." And a nurse felt "it would be demeaning to even ask mums to look at the poster." Different people reacted to different aspects of the poster. For some, it was the size of the breast. With the growing popularity and acceptance of breast augmentation, with magazines and movies showing large breasts in skimpy clothing it is amazing that naturally full breast is seen as somehow remarkable and obscene. "What a big boob!" said some and "The exposed breast is obviously enlarged." And some accused us of digitally enhancing it to make our point. Just for the record, we didn't.

Some disliked the poster at some incoherent level and were then asked to say just what their problem with it was. The most violently opposed immediately seized on the age of the child and inflated that. With no evidence at all, they decided the child was at least three years old and maybe as old as four or five. Again, without any evidence they were also more likely to assume the child was a boy. In fact, the child is 20 months old and a girl.

Clearly the poster brought out some deep seated barriers in attitude that can't help but hinder the widespread freedom to breastfeeding with in our society. A couple of comments on an internet forum about the poster sums it up nicely, "it's important to realise that our discomfort is about US not about what that child is doing. Breastfeeding isn't a 'glorious act' it's a way to nurture a young child, both physically and psychologically. "I am guilty of feeling a little uncomfortable by the poster as it doesn't portray what I thought breastfeeding was about for me." It's a societal issue with women's bodies in Western culture being viewed as sex objects.
Breastfeeding Week 2005 presented New Zealanders with a new image of breastfeeding to begin breaking down the barriers of stereotypes that have been infiltrating us through the years. Taking a look back in history at the images of the Madonna breastfeeding her child, there has been a variety of images. Continuing to only portray breastfeeding in one way, the romantic Madonna look, does not help the acceptance of breastfeeding as a normal and natural function that has many different looks.

Getting Over it
From the amount of debate and dialogue that has occurred from the release of the poster it became apparent that the image presented challenges to some peoples' way of thinking about breastfeeding. "At least it has promoted discussion, which is very healthy for our Public Health Unit." "It has created a lot of discussion about breastfeeding which is a good achievement."
Many people who were first taken back by the image, on reflection came to see its value: "Well done, at first I thought too much breast was showing, but you can almost see that amount on some people so I say go for it." "Throws you back a bit at first, but hey it's natural, it's acceptable to show the breast." One mother of a young baby suggested that the image should have been more discrete then went on to ask, "any tips for being able to feed that long?"

Just like me!
There was a wonderful unanticipated reward from the release of the image - the validation that small talking breastfeeding children received. The image remains of one such child excitedly tugging her mother to see the poster and beaming at her as she pointed to it with a big smile on her face saying "like me". Another child was determined to know the name of the child in the photo - the little girl breastfeeding in the park was her hero. A mother related; "Two and a half year old Clayton (still breastfeeding) saw the toddler breastfeeding poster and immediately said Nana and Nan-na. He had no trouble seeing it as an advertisement for food with his breastmilk.
Getting On with itBreastfeeding is the biological norm. However success is at least as reliant on the many non-biological social factors in our modern society. One of those factors is people's views, expectations and tolerance for what is seen as normal. The focus on breasts as sex symbols and their extensive use in selling almost everything is seen as normal by most and desirable by many. At the same time, the tendency to hide breastfeeding away and portray it as normal only for babies who are held in a Madonna pose, creates a situation where breasts are seen as indecent when they are being used for their designated purpose and decent when their display is gratuitous.

Variety is normal. Some mothers' breastfeed by lifting their tops up, others by pulling them down, both are acceptable. Mothers breastfeed two year olds, two month old babies and sometimes tandem feed new babies alongside pre-schoolers. All are acceptable practices. Babies feed comfortably in their mother's arms. Toddlers however are active and curious. Many feed 'on the run' and most have a wandering eye - they just hate to miss anything! Many a mother breastfeeding a toddler will testify to the fact that few breastfeeding toddlers focus entirely on the job at hand. Mothers sometimes look adoringly at their infants when they feed. Other times they take no notice of the child at the breast as they talk freely to friends. In this they are not unusual - most animals with suckling young pay them little heed as they get older!

For breastfeeding to move from a biological norm to a widespread and accepted cultural norm, we all need to look at how we react to the different breastfeeding styles and images that we see. When it is no big deal or nothing out of the ordinary we will have made progress. While we still gape and uncomfortably shift and shuffle at the exposed breast or the feeding child (in any position), we still have a way to go. And while we still have a way to go, children miss being breastfed and gaining major health benefits. Every one of us has a role in creating a breastfeeding society.

Friday, November 13, 2009

Breast is best for weight loss? Breast-feeding guilt trips aren't limited to talk of babies' health.

Hmmm... This is an interesting article, but there was some important info left out.

Breastfeeding moms *can* safely lose about one pound per week in a healthy manner. Basically, a breastfeeding mom needs to "eat to hunger" and "drink to thirst" in most situations and she'll lose weight. Usually, just making sure snacks are healthy can be the main thing to focus on... a bowel of fruit is probably a healthier choice than the quick and easy candy bar. A brisk walk during the day, with baby in a carrier or stroller, can help mom get over any weight loss plateaus... and perhaps help her feel better, too!

There are lots of reliable weight loss programs out there specific to breastfeeding moms. These can help her safely lose weight without affecting her milk supply. Working with her doctor is also a good idea.

Here are a couple of good resources:

http://kellymom.com/nutrition/mom/mom-weightloss.html
http://www.llli.org/FAQ/diet.html

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Breast is best for weight loss?
Breast-feeding guilt trips aren't limited to talk of babies' health.
What about the new mom's figure?
Tracy Clark-Flory
Nov. 12, 2009


Today, the New York Times introduces us to a new reason to make mothers feel bad about not breast-feeding: all that fat around their bellies. "Breast is best" used to be just the ticket to send a new mom directly to Guilt Island, but now you don't even need to invoke the health of her formula-fed baby. Instead, just point out that she's still wearing those stretchy maternity pants to hide her post-baby pooch -- because, apparently, the hot new regimen for postpartum weight loss is expelling milk. That's right: Breast pumping instead of pumping iron.

The Times' Catherine Saint Louis begins the article with the tale of Jessica Jochim, a woman who "was the envy of her co-workers at Babies 'R' Us" because she returned after three months of maternity leave wearing size 4 jeans. "Yet, exercise was a pre-baby relic. She wasn’t dieting, either," says Saint Louis. "In fact, every two hours, she snacked as if on cue." Intrigued? Jealous? Feeling homicidal? Salivating in anticipation of her weight loss trick? She continues: "What was her secret? Breast-feeding her newborn James on demand, and using a breast pump to take milk home to him." VoilĂ ! Babies: The new miracle weight loss pill. Or, as Saint Louis calls it, it's the "Get Out of Dieting Jail Free card."

Click here to read more...

Sunday, November 8, 2009

How do I respond to and avoid criticism about breastfeeding?

A wonderful article called "Responding to Criticism" from La Leche League International magazine for families, NEW BEGINNINGS. The chart at the end of the article summarizes five methods for responding.

http://www.llli.org/FAQ/criticism.html

Your attitude and tone of voice can make a world of difference in how people accept your responses. The approaches and phrases listed below are helpful for dealing with criticism.
Review them and choose the ones that are most comfortable for you.
  • Use "I" messages instead of "YOU" messages. (Rather than "You always criticize me" try "I really don't like to be criticized.")
  • I'd like to discuss something. Is this a good time for you?
  • I feel (angry, hurt, etc.) when...
  • Having your support means so much to me.
  • It's amazing how much research has been done over the years. It must surprise you to see me doing _______. I hope I'll be able to handle it well when Abbey starts her own family.
  • Everyone has to make the decision they feel is best for their situation.
  • I'm glad that you care so much about the baby. I've thoroughly researched the topic and feel comfortable with my decision. I'd be glad to share my info with you.
  • I realize that this is an individual decision, and I'd really appreciate your giving me a chance at this.
  • My doctor has stated...
  • The American Academy of Pediatrics feels...
  • That gives me a lot to think about!
  • Your love and concern for the baby really shows.
  • That's certainly another way of approaching it.
  • I'm glad that ___________ worked well for you and your baby.
  • We're really at odds here. Let's just agree to disagree and still stay friends, OK?
  • I think we're losing sight of our goal here, which is the baby's well-being. Let's back up a little.
  • This is a topic that has been debated and argued for generations. Let's not fall into that trap, OK?
  • There are some valid points to both sides here.
  • You could be right.
  • I'd like some time to think about what you just said.
  • Let's remember that we're both on the same side here.
  • Can we save the arguments for truly vital topics?
  • It's a very individual decision, and I'd never try to impose my viewpoints on someone else.
  • Maybe the topic of _______ should go along with religion and politics: Not a good conversation topic for us.
  • Discussing __________ can really get me worked up. I'm sorry if I said anything out of line. Let's change the subject.
  • How about a compromise? You don't mention __________and I won't criticize your driving anymore.
  • We're Abbey's parents and this is the decision we've made.
  • You feel very strongly about this, I can see.
  • This works for our family in our situation, but it might not work for you.
  • Just Smile. :-)

Ways To Prevent Criticism:

  1. Be discreet if at all possible.
  2. Don't set yourself up for a discussion you don't really want to have.
  3. Avoid issues where you anticipate disagreement. Focus instead on areas where you have something in common.
  4. Offer an explanation of why you do things before you are asked. Do this in a gentle way, letting them know how happy you and the baby are. Be sure you give them permission to do things differently. (See #6 & 29 above)
  5. Appear confident and happy with the way you do things, even if you are not. Don't express doubts to people who don't agree with you.

Finally:

Rise above criticism as much as you can without a "holier than thou" attitude. A positive non-threatening reply works best. In rising above criticism, making light of things often works.
Sometimes it's best to ignore the criticism and consider the source. People often feel defensive and attack when someone is doing things differently.

If you know you will be in a situation where your actions will be criticized, prepare ahead of time by practicing some of these responses. Create your own as needed. Practicing the responses you prefer in front of a mirror or with an understanding friend, will help you to be more confident.

When you are in the situation, pause a moment and take a deep, relaxing breath before answering.

Iron Levels of the Breastfed Baby

So, my little pumpkin is now 2 years old and she didn't really start eating solids until she was about 14 mos or so... (all the while being in the 99th percentile in height & weight). There was a little bit of worry since I knew she might fall short in the iron department and become anemic. A hemoglobin test showed this to be true...


As most know, iron levels for the exclusively breastfed baby, who was born healthy and full-term, are generally in great shape those first 6 mos (generally breastfed babies do fine the 1st nine mos). Foods high in iron are generallyrecommended (before iron supplements) at this age since iron in foods are better absorbed into their little bodies, etc. I like to also cook as much food in my iron skillets (seasoned from years of use by my mom!) and combine iron rich foods with Vitamin C foods:

* spaghetti with meat and tomato sauce
* meat and potatoes
* chicken fajitas with broccoli, sweet pepper, and tomatoes
* hamburger and coleslaw
* nitrate-free hot dogs and orange juice
* fruit, iron-fortified cereal, and raisins
* fresh fruit with raisins

For more info:

(A thorough description on anemia...)
http://askdrsears.com/html/4/t043100.asp#T043106
"PUMPING UP YOUR IRON"

www.llli.org/FAQ/firstfoods.html
"First foods for babies"

http://www.kellymom.com/nutrition/vitamins/iron.html
"Is Iron-Supplementation Necessary?"


Some additional info on solids from the AAP:

http://aappolicy.aappublications.org/cgi/content/full/pediatrics;115/2/496*

"Pediatricians and parents should be aware that exclusive breastfeeding is sufficient to support optimal growth and development for approximately the first 6 months of life and provides continuing protection against diarrhea and respiratory tract infection. Breastfeeding should be continued for at least the first year of life and beyond for as long as mutually desired by mother and child.

* Complementary foods rich in iron should be introduced gradually beginning around 6 months of age. Preterm and low birth weight infants and infants with hematologic disorders or infants who had inadequate iron stores at birth generally require iron supplementation before 6 months of age. Iron may be administered while continuing exclusive breastfeeding.

* Unique needs or feeding behaviors of individual infants may indicate a need for introduction of complementary foods as early as 4 months of age, whereas other infants may not be ready to accept other foods until approximately 8 months of age.

* Introduction of complementary feedings before 6 months of age generally does not increase total caloric intake or rate of growth and only substitutes foods that lack the protective components of human milk.

* During the first 6 months of age, even in hot climates, water and juice are unnecessary for breastfed infants and may introduce contaminants or allergens.

* Increased duration of breastfeeding confers significant health and developmental benefits for the child and the mother, especially in delaying return of fertility (thereby promoting optimal intervals between births).

* There is no upper limit to the duration of breastfeeding and no evidence of psychologic or developmental harm from breastfeeding into the third year of lifeor longer.

* Infants weaned before 12 months of age should not receive cow's milk but should receive iron-fortified infant formula.


So, here's a recipe I found that is quite yummy (below)... If you try it out, let us know what you think (and what your baby/toddler think!).


"Coconut-Apple Sweet Potatoes

Ingredients:

* 1 apple, peeled, cored and chopped
* 1/2 C. sweet potato, peeled and chopped
* 1/2 T. dried coconut
* water as needed

Instructions: Place the chopped sweet potato pieces in a steamer over boiling water. After 5 minutes, add the chopped apples and steam until tender. Place potato and apple pieces into a food processor with coconut. Process until baby food consistency, adding water as necessary. Note: You can use a potato masher, fork, or baby food grinder to prepare this recipe, though the mixture won't be as smooth. This is also a great side dish for a toddler meal. Try using coconut milk instead of water for a creamier, more coconutty flavor.